Vibes

You\’ve heard me talk a little bit about energy between individuals, if you know my personal life- THIS HAS BECOME MY WORLD. How do you describe it to someone who has no idea what it means? Maybe you will learn something new today…

This is one of my favorite topics. Everyone uses energy. It takes energy for everything we do- every day. I even agree with spiritual beliefs that inanimate objects contain energy within them. Sorry, not sorry.

My main focus today will be *insert eye roll* emotional energy. Some of you may have researched a little more of me from the About tab on this website( https://www.yourmoxiecoach.com/about/ ) I am a Certified Professional Coach(CPC), COR.E Dynamics Transition Specialist, AND also, an Energy Leadership Index-Master Practitioner. My education/toolbox of information came from the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching. They\’re renowned for their study of the 7 Levels of Energy. I will post below, as well as on my website for a better description of each level. You can be measured within the Energy Leadership Index(exam) which gives results from how you measure in daily life; and how you measure under stress. There are no wrong answers, just a better understanding of how YOU \’show up\’ in life(an awareness). Whether you choose to take the results to alter your energy, that is entirely up to you.

What about energy BETWEEN individuals…That\’s a real thing, right? Some people who have never felt the \’pull\’ between them and someone else, will never understand. HOWEVER, I\’m asking you to please, begin to be aware of how energy, vibrations(vibes), or connections between you and those in your life create good or some energy can feel like a magnetic repulsion. Have you EVER experienced it? You know the: \”I just don\’t feel right about him/her…\” or maybe your parent\’s were ALWAYS right when it came to good friends vs. bad friends because they could just sense it. They were always right…..ha-ha.

Every day we interact with a variety of people. Do you ever have a \’good\’ and \’bad\’ feeling about someone? Because- THAT\’S IT! Okay, do you trust your intuition(we\’ve talked about this before; have you been working on that trust?)

You will feel it when you\’ve met your matching energy. It is hard to describe because it is life changing…{Is it your soul mate? Possibly…personally, I believe there are different kinds of soulmates within our lives(those that teach us life lessons[stepping stones], romantic partners that last forever, or even those short term shake-ups that will leave you heart broken).}

This \’pull\’ I am referring to is a connection that is really hard to duplicate, it IS possible; but seldom matched. You will feel content(\’the void is filled\’ in part- besides the work you have done for yourself…)

I have a friend from my life at cosmetology school, her name was Tiff; we had the friendship that we could just look at each other in a crowd of classmates and start to laugh because we knew EXACTLY what the other was thinking. An instant visual connection. To have those people in your circle- it is an AMAZING feeling. Do you have those friends? What about a romantic partner with the same energy? Woah. That will knock the wind right out of you! It\’s usually completely unexpected, too. Not only will you have the visual connection and attraction to them, but the conversation will flow easily- without any hesitation. To sit in silence without it being awkward? No problem. Only few will understand(because they have usually felt it, too!). The energy will be so strong that you can\’t help but want to stand right next to them; so that you will touch: maybe an arm, leg, foot…it\’s that strong of a pull for them. [It is NOT about those people that are annoying with their PDA\’s(public display of affection) either…that looks awkward to EVERYONE, this will not] You just want to feel them, \”Right there. Now, don\’t move.\” Ha-ha. When you\’re not together, it\’s almost like a 6th sense~ feeling their feelings…(same can be said when someone says, \’I just thought I needed to call you\’). The ENERGY can be overwhelming- especially, if you\’ve never felt it before; but congratulate yourself…It\’s an amazing connection! And, (un)fortunately, it WILL never be forgotten, no matter how hard you try. Fear sometimes takes over when the massive PULL for a person is not fleeting like you expect it to…You begin to think \’this cannot be real(denial)\”~ that\’s totally normal. You are just UNABLE to manage the thoughts, feelings, all of it. That\’s okay. Put distance where it needs to be. But, a little advice…the craving for that connection will never go away. Embrace it. It will be worth it.

Can you name a friend, family member, or spouse with whom you match emotional energy? Are they still in your life? Who is it? Describe the thoughts and emotions(in detail) that come up when you talk about your \’soulmate\’…What category of soulmate are they? Friend, etc?

See your 7 Levels of Energy below…you can move around the levels at any given time…You are NOT stationary during an entire day: